“Batman, Prayers and Prisons, Part 1”
With his chin resting on his fist, Azadeem thought as hard
as an 8-year-old could at the most important question I asked him… “Batman!” he finally exclaimed in response to
my favorite superhero question. He made his arms into wings (does Batman do
that?) as he grinned pretending to be his hero.
“Ah!” he interrupted his own fantasy, “and my dad” he spoke in Arabic.
Azadeem, a.k.a. Batman |
I was apprehensive when I interviewed Azadeem. A bright kid… He likes computer games the few
times he got to play them (the racecar ones were his favorite), karate and jump
rope. Those were the easy questions; but
how do I ask an 8-year-old about life in a refugee camp under occupation?
Azadeem grew up in Askar refugee camp with his 3 siblings. He hasn’t known another home in his life. I asked him what he wanted to be when he grew
up, and he said a carpenter. “Whys that?” I responded.
After Azadeem spoke, the interpreter laughed at his response and
replied, “He said because that’s what his dad does.”
Askar Refugee Camp |
I asked the interpreter what kind of ID Azadeem has, which
was Palestinian. As you remember from
the last interview, Palestinian IDs are as good as a monopoly passport in the
United States. That means Azadeem would
need special permission to leave, something that isn’t common. Azadeem is confined to the West Bank. I asked him if he could go anywhere in the
world, where would it be? I offered the
suggestion of Disneyland (a popular 8-year-old dream), but he didn’t know what that
was. Instead, he replied, “Israel. I want to see the sea. I’ve never see the sea before. Maybe Jerusalem too.”
This made me curious.
Did Azadeem know his status within Palestine? Does he know Palestine’s status in
Israel? I turned to the interpreter, “Can
I ask him about the occupation?” I asked.
He turned to Azadeem without responding to me and asked him. Azadeem shrugged his shoulders. The interpreter asked again... Same response.
Azadeem thinks the refugee camp and living in an area
controlled and limited by Israel is a standard life every kid lives. He doesn’t know that Israel only allows
electric and running water certain days a week.
He doesn’t know if he tried to jump the fence to get into Israel he will
be shot on the spot. He also doesn’t
know that his family used to live in Lut (a city in Israel), but after 1967
Israel took over that land. Israeli’s
live in his former home. Azadeem lives
in a refugee camp.
“His dad just got out of an Israeli prison a month ago,” the
interpreter said. “Want me to ask him
about it?” Before I could even think
about the magnitude of that sentence, I looked at Azadeem, still half smiling
since his Batman adventures. Living in a
refugee camp isn’t fair to an 8-year-old.
Neither is anyone’s parents living in prison. I grew up in a suburban middle to upper class
neighborhood with all the amenities an 8-year-old could have: SEGA Genesis (remember
that?), playstation, a trampoline and a racecar bed. I should be Azadeem, but I’m not. How did he get the short straw and I hit the
jackpot? Life isn’t fair, especially in
Palestine. Nonetheless, Azadeem is happier than most Americans his age. He lives in a tight knit community- one that is bound by the bonds of their stories.
Askar Camp |
“Yes. Yes I do,” was
my response to the interpreter. Azadeem was
asked the question. My eyes were locked
on his, expecting to see his face to change to dismay. Much to my surprise, Azadeem’s demeanor didn’t
change, I’m guessing due to the innocence of being 8.
“I prayed for him to come home. I missed hugging my Dad, and I was confused
why he was in prison. Sometimes I was
angry, but it’s okay. I just prayed that
I could hug him.”
Azadeem got his wish 1 month ago when they released his
father from an Israeli prison.
Want to know the perspective from his Dad? Or why he was in
prison? Find out in Part 2, where I got
the chance to interview him.
What a sad story. Looking forward to the second part it.
ReplyDeleteIt's sad and cruel that he wishes to go the sea as the Mediterranean Sea is visible on a clear day from the West Bank. Last year, I had similar thoughts as I ran into the warm embrace of the Med on the other - Sicilian - side.
ReplyDeleteThe Romans used to call the Mediterranean Sea, the Mare Nostrum (our sea). What a lovely dream it is to think of this body of water as the sea of all the people living around it in peace, love and harmony.
But as this dream seems further off today than ever, we can only try our best. Reach out to those who will listen. And listen to those who are willing to speak.
And to give Azadeem a hug.